Growing up in India, Pahalgam represented all that was charming about Kashmir – a Paradise where many a Bollywood movie was filmed in the 1970s.
The closest we got to this town was on our TV screens, when Amitabh Bachan romanced Rekha, in the song ‘Dekha Ek Khwab’ from the movie Silsila (1981), which was partly shot along the rivers and valleys of Pahalgam.
Filmmaker Vidhu Vinod Chopra’s thriller Khamosh (1985) starring Shabana Azmi, was also set mainly in Pahalgam.
This picturesque town set amidst pine forests on the banks of the Lidder river is the kind of movie locale that rivals Switzerland in Bollywood’s playbook.
Not only was the town as picture-perfect and charming as it looked in the movies, but the kids had a lot of fun there.
The main street in the town is a road where you’ll find a few shops and a small cafe.
The coffee shop had, among other historical images and paraphernalia, this lovely ode to Pahalgam, written by a bard called Shail Gulhati, that describes the town perfectly.
My fondest memories of Pahalgam are that of our excursion along the banks of the picturesque Lidder river that originates from the Kolhoi Glacier and joins the Jehlum River at Mirgund Khanabal.
The kids had so much fun exploring the banks, we could have stayed all day.
Our driver and guide, Parvaiz bhai – whose daughter, Maleha had joined us for the trip – found us a cosy cottage to sleep for two nights.
We spent the cold evenings huddled up under the covers, kept warm and toasty by the thermal blanket I had bought in Srinagar, watching television shows like Kaun Banega Crorepati, India’s version of Who Will Become a Millionaire.
The kids went for a pony ride in the morning (I have bad knees and don’t like riding animals), while Parvaiz bhai and I chatted about life and other things over a steaming cup of Kashmiri kahwah.
I was touched when the kids brought back a bunch of pretty wildflowers and pine cones for me.
Another excursion we enjoyed was a visit to the Lidder View amusement park.
The park was closed, but Parvaiz bhai persuaded the man at the gate to let us in. Even though it was shut down, the kids enjoyed a game of ‘pretend’ on the rides.
Regarding travel destinations, I found Pahalgam a sleepy, lovely, and quiet place for a vacation. There were no crowds when we went, just locals going about their business.
Depending on the time of year you go to Pahalgam, there are many more activities that you can opt for, such as golf, fishing (permits required), pony rides, trekking, camping, and skiing.
As I’ve been told, the situation in Kashmir is slowly returning back to normal. If that continues, who knows, I might just be able to visit Pahalgam once again.
Watch my video of Pahalgam, Kashmir, starring my own Kashmir ki kalis.